SALUTUL, lipsa de respect, proasta crestere si complexul de inferioritate

Ce este salutul? Salutul este o forma de schimb de politete intre doua persoane.
Ce este considerat un salut? in general o scurta inclinare a capului urmata de un salut verbal sau nu.
Ce sunt nesimtirea, lipsa de respect, proasta crestere si complexul de inferioritate? Cand vine vorba de salut toate aceste lucruri se strang impreuna si devin un tot unitar. Mai exact ma refer la oamenii pe care ii cunosti si care te cunosc destul de bine si pentru un motiv sau altul, numai de ei stiut, cand te intilnesc in public evita sa te salute. Situatia se schimba radical cand te intilnesti cu ei si nu este nimeni imprejur.
Salutul nu are nimic cu statutul social pe care il ai sau cu cat respect vei primi in schimb, dimpotriva nesalutand te coboara la nivelul de taran si iti scade respectul pe care alti oameni l-ar avea pentru tine. Daca esti confident in cine esti atunci esti confident si in deciziile pe care le iei de fata cu altii. Daca iti este rusine sa saluti un cunoscut sau un compatriot numai pentru ca iti este rusine cu ce o sa creada cei din jurul tau atunci ai un sever complex de inferioritate pe care ar trebui sa ti-l analizezi.
Cum sa tratam acesti indivizi? Simplu – aplicam regula celor trei. Daca ai incercat de trei ori sa ii saluti in public si ti-a evitat privirea sau te-a evitat pur si simplu, atunci ii tai de pe lista salutatilor.

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HANDBOOK 2010


HEALTH:
1. Drink plenty of water.
2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.
3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.
4. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.
5. Make time for prayer.
6. Play more games.
7. Read more books than you did in 2009.
8. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
9. Sleep for 7 hours.
10. Take a 10-30 minutes’ walk every day. And while you walk, smile.


PERSONALITY:
11. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
12. Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control.
Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
13. Don't overdo. Keep your limits.
14. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
15. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip.
16. Dream more while you are awake.
17. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
18. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past.
That will ruin your present happiness.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
20. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
21. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
22. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that
appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
23. Smile and laugh more.
24. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.



SOCIETY:
25. Call your family often.
26. Each day give something good to others.
27. Forgive everyone for everything.
28. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
29. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
30. What other people think of you is none of your business.
31. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will. Stay in touch.

LIFE:
32. Do the right thing!
33. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
34. GOD heals everything.
35. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
36. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
37. The best is yet to come.
38. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it.
39. Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.