Wednesday, July 30, 2014

Back...

Yeah, it's been a while, I know. What happened since then, a lot and nothing. Life is taking its course and sometimes I wonder if destiny plays any role in the decisions that we take for ourselves.
Emotionally I think that I am really getting past the point where I believe in feelings and love, at the level woman and man. I got to many disappointing experiences that I really think that love is just a funny joke that God is playing on us.
I think that long term relationships are very over rated but at the same time I realize that life is short and we are getting old fast. We are getting to the point when we realize that we will die the same way we came into this life, which is alone, helpless and with a mind of a baby. Sometimes we want to escape from this trap and we try to find comfort in having someone with us so we are not alone. As humans we are afraid of loneliness. I think that the solution is in fact right in front of our eyes. One should always train to end up alone. There are no people in this life in which you can put your 100% trust.

Be strong my friend because loneliness is a bitch, but it can be tamed :)

3 comments:

  1. Of course the destiny plays a role in any decisions we make, but sometimes we need to take a step back and look at the big picture. Some people can feel if a decision they are about to make is wrong. They feel it deep down inside them. Others dive in head first and they figure it out along the way.
    Love is not overrated, it just a concept that each person creates An ideal. What is love for one person it could be considered jealousy, indifference, coldness by the other. Love should be about finding the middle ground and accepting the other person with flaws and all.
    I think life is a journey not a fight and we should enjoy it as much as possible. As you said, we get old fast.

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